未名交友 - LukeleeLuke，男/35，寻同路人。

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看过一篇文章，印象颇深。
讲得是如看待挫折和失败：

1）坚信挫折只是暂时的： Develop a deep faith in the fate of the future and affirm that after the rain of setback goes away, a shining day of success awaits you.
正所谓：
事务发展成螺旋式上升，前途是光明的，道路是曲折的。

2）挫折是孕育成功的种子： seeming despair has in it the seeds of success.
正所谓：
      文王拘而演周易;仲尼厄而作春秋;屈原放逐,乃赋离骚;左丘失明阙有国语;孙子膑脚,兵法修列;不韦迁蜀,世传吕览;韩非囚秦,说难,孤愤;诗三百篇,大抵贤圣发愤之所为作也.
想来司马迁的
              痛也非常人所能体会的，
              一心完成史记的坚定，非我之所及。
但真的常崇拜得想哭。

3）失败只存在于你的意识中： Our failure is considered a success if we learn to develop an attitude to learning from the setback and to keep an eye on what matters over the long haul.

4）享受追逐成功的快乐，忘却可能的失败： Have you ever watched a toddler or a young child running with agility and unbound energy? Children teach us a great deal about the life and its wisdom. They take risks without paralyzing their mind with the possible failure. They do not sink back into the past if they fall while running. They do not worry about the fate of the future. They are living in the moment. Their mind is focused like a laser beam on their desire to run.

5）面对失败，不要过于自责： A failure is only a temporary delay of a positive response from the universe for our efforts. Don’t make it all about you. If you ask any successful person, you’ll find that behind every success lies the foundation of the lessons learned from the failures. When our effort fails, it simply indicates that what we perceived as a result has not come to life yet. Nonetheless, our efforts never go in vain if we learn to get ahead and stay focused on our perceived outcome. We are not born to deal with failures productively, but the ones who succeed among us have mastered the craft of learning lessons from it and taking the lessons gleaned out on to their next odyssey of success

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标题：成事（00）感情与事业的同？与异？

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想来成事的关键的确是要把握好自己的心。
除了“海纳百川有容则大，壁立千仞无欲则刚“之外，
还要培养大智慧，和具体办事能力。
如何培养呢？
要经事，经风雨。
如果有了大理想，这些就是不可避免的了。
所以就象个“痛苦“的良性循环。
一层一层地脱皮？成长？

But when we talking about love,
there are so many conflicts to above concept (certainly, also sth. in common).

Once emotional stuffs involved,
the logic in one's mind disappears almost right away..
If one can keep or bring back strong logic in the brain while encountering dramatic emotions,
he/she got be superior to ordinary people or just emotionally dull?

This is the part I always feel confused and can't handle well.

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标题：ICON

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创建于：2008-12-27

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My Icons.

Philosophy:
- 孔子
- Socrates
- 王阳明

Science:
- Alan Turing

Politics/Military:
- 邓小平

Historian:
- 司马迁

Business:
- Bill Gates

江湖：
- 秦琼

Controversial:
- 张作霖

Arts/others:
- 单田方

Fiction:
- Gandalf (The Lord of The Ring)

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标题：Christmas.

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创建于：2008-12-26

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yes, tonight it is.

Alone,
reading on some tutorial.

A long night again.

But I feel so relieved.

I have never ever suffered from so many pains at the same time.
Finally, they are all about gone...

I am a stronger person,
and life is a piece of white paper again...

What would happen in the new year?
I think it's up to my action and reaction...:)

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标题：Say GOODBYE to 2008! and WELCOME 2009!

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创建于：2008-12-21

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In 2008:
-- I did a good internship.
-- I got a good job offer.
-- I got divorced peacefully! (Fault from both sides)
-- I broke up with my new girl-friend peacefully!(she left me without good reason)
-- I finalized my first commercial software library.
-- I am working on my Thesis right now.
-- I dropped my TAship for the comming term.
-- I never feel I am this strong ever!
-- I never feel I am this pationate about this life!
-- I am so convinced that

I will be s o m e b o d y oneday!

For 2009!
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-- Become Dr. Lee
-- Become the backbone in our new team.

-- Make some good friends.

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